This is one of the smoothest ways to get close to your partner while dancing.
It’s aggressive but a smooth move and you normally won’t get any resistance.
Tips for Guys:
-Dance apart for a little while and get comfortable vibing with her first.
-Don’t wait too long and be aggressive once you decide you want to bring her in closer.
-Hold her hands on your shoulders so she knows to keep them there. Otherwise may move them immediately.
Tips for Girls:
If you’re not into the guy or not enjoying the interaction you can back off or keep him at a distance with your hands. Think of a “stiff arm” in football =)