This was a really great night up at Mezzanine in SF. They had DJ’s playing a mashup of funk, soul.. Great night with my boys Victor, James, and my student Kirk. Ran into my friends bboy Slim Jim from Supreme Soul and Tiff Jimini from Syrenz. The bgirl in the video is Renee from Bsyde Crew!
One of the things that’s helped me improve my confidence SIGNIFICANTLY with women has been to learn how to be ok with me. It sounds so simple but deep down many of us have insecurities with our looks, careers, social lives..
Two of the topics I teach in my newest video Dance Seduction Moves “Wetter is Better” are BE CONFIDENT and BE SEXY. Be proud of who you are, good and bad, and don’t apologize for being the man you are and have become. Know that it’s ok to be a sexual being and to say sexy things to women, dance sexually… Know that women like seeing that you have the confidence to express yourself!
In the video I also teach you how to BE FUN, and how to TAKE CONTROL. Women love being around guys that make them laugh and enjoy themselves, I’ve also been told by different close female friends that they prefer that their man acts like a man and takes charge and is aggressive. As an Asian male I know for some this can be difficult as many of us were raised to be more passive or grew up in a female dominated household.
Just know that you can change old habits and learn all of these things, you can learn how to be the man you’ve always wanted to be. A more Fun and Confident man, Sexier, and someone who Takes control and goes after what he wants. If you are alone on this Valentine’s Day, give yourself this gift and become the best man you can be so when you meet that right girl, she’ll see all the best qualities in you.
As a toast to you, I’m offering an amazing offer for all 3 DVD’s, a FREE 30 minute skype lesson, a $15 off coupon go to http://danceseductionmoves.com/dance_seduction_moves_dvd/ and use coupon code: BESTYOU2012. Cheers, and see you at the top!
-Chi CEO of DanceFloorGame and Creator of the Dance Attraction Formula
I just got back from my first teaching trip to Dubai, UAE. An absolutely magical place in the desert full of the tallest skyscrapers, fanciest cars, the most beautiful women. Everything in Dubai is exotic especially the women. As an American to see so many Russian, Middle Eastern, and Filipinas was intriguing.
My 4th night in Dubai I met a gorgeous Filipina girl named Sofia. A stunning girl my friend Ryan and I talked to immediately to ask for a table, then Ryan said to me “Damn she’s hot!” The more I looked at her I realized he was right. There were lots of 9′s and 10′s in the building that night but almost all of them were “working girls”. The working girls were smokin hot, but having to pay for some action was not in the cards. Sofia was also “working” but she was selling drinks not herself as a waitress at the high end Club Triology in Dubai.
I gave her my number that Tuesday night, she texted me the next day and we chatted back and forth and set up a date for Saturday. Saturday we went out to Armani Club, had a few drinks and danced a bit, then went back to my hotel and ended up having a great night. Talked some more during the week and saw her again the next week before I left to return stateside.
As I look back on a successful Hook up, I observe a few things I did right.
- I exuded confidence and high value
- Was aggressive but not needy or desperate
- Made her qualify herself to me
- Poked fun of her and didn’t take myself or her too seriously
- Had a good wingman who talked me up to her.
- Kept her thinking about me via texts and occaisional calls
- Dancing well always helps
- Dressed well.
- I stood out and apart from all the other guys she meets.
All in all if I can pick out the biggest thing I did right I’d say standing out amongst the hundreds of guys she meets every week. As a waitress she works 6 nights a week and gets hit on all the time. She would later tell me that guys always tell her the same thing “You’re the most beautiful girl in here” and sometimes rich dudes will leave her $4000 aed tips ($1100 usd) to try to impress her. (And I thought my $90aed tip on $110 bill was decent!) I never mentioned anything about her looks the first night I met her.
She randomly told me the second night we hung out that I was not like every other guy she met and that’s what attracted her to me. Now again, I’m no Brad Pitt or expert, but the more experience and practice I get, the easier the game gets. If I can recommend something to guys looking to improve their game, I would say make sure you challenge women, and stand out amongst a sea of Average Frustrated Chumps.
I won’t tell you exactly what I said but if you need some ideas on how to challenge a woman; you can start by asking her if she’s adventurous, if she cooks, or as I mentioned before in BE PASSIONATE ask her what her Passion is.
Secondly stand out either literally by wearing something interesting and having a different style, or perhaps have cool stories to tell or think of otherways to make yourself memorable to women.
Looking at your own succesful hookups what did you do right to hookup or how did you stand out? Pls comment below!