How to Dance At a Club:Leading the Lady

This is a simple technique that can be used to break the touch barrier and to get the ladies more comfortable with you.

If the girls arms are up, or even if theyre’ down around her hips- you can smoothly grab her hands and lead her around a bit. I normally place my fingers palms up to her palms down, or you can put your thumb on her palm and wrap your fingers around her wrist.

Hip Hop is DEAD.

“Hip Hop is DEAD” posted my club promoter friend Virgil Monday on my Facebook wall.  I cringed at the thought- it’s like a giant stab into my heart. Yet I know he is completely correct,  I’ve felt that there is NO good Hip Hop these days, especially not on the radio. There is  some good Read more about Hip Hop is DEAD.[…]

How to Kiss a Girl While Dancing- Kiss Close

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xh3L3s2g50w[/youtube] How to Kiss a Girl While Dancing! Alot of guys are timid about touching girls and have no idea how to escalate and create intimacy with women while dancing.  I have many different techniques for Kiss closing but here’s one that works really well. 1. Establish chemistry with girl by dancing with her.. you Read more about How to Kiss a Girl While Dancing- Kiss Close[…]

How to Stay Cool in the Club

The first thing to be aware of is the type of clothes/material you are wearing. A simple way to stay cooler is to wear short sleeve button ups versus long sleeves. Try wearing a lighter material such as linen or cotton shirts or pants. These materials may breathe better and keep you cooler than others. Coat check your jacket at the door as extra layers will obviously make you warmer. Wearing head gear (hats,beanies) can look cool but also traps in heat so be aware there.

FAQ: Will Dancing Help me Get Girls?

Without even dancing well, a man who has the confidence to get on the dance floor is way ahead of his peers, I’d say 40-60% of men at clubs never have the balls to step on the dance floor. So if you’re out there, you’re already way ahead of those dudes with their back on the walls clutching their drinks. (What is this -middle school?) Now I’m not here to judge, I’m here to help and am just sharing my experience.

FAQ: Can ANYONE Learn to Dance?

I’ve received many comments on my youtube.com/ClubDanceLessons Channel where people say dancing is something you have naturally or you don’t… and that you can’t learn to have rhythm and feel the groove.

These comments are complete BULLSHIT. Rhythm CAN be learned, and ANYONE can improve their body control and coordination. In 10 years of teaching I’ve seen hundreds of the most uncoordinated people in the world and I can honestly say every single one of them improved.

FAQ: How Long to Learn Dance?

The most common question students ask is: “How long will it take me to get good dancing?”. My answer is : “It depends on how good you are now, how fast you learn, how much you want to learn, how often you take lessons, and how much you practice on your own.

An ideal schedule for learning (night club) dance is

Salsa Clubs vs. Hip Hop Clubs

I’ve danced Salsa 5 years and Hip Hop officially for 12 .  It would be hard to choose between the two as they are completely opposite of each other, but if I had to choose one genre to be in my life it would be Salsa. Salsa music (Latin-Jazz) is beautiful, romantic, inspiring.  Hip Hop music is Read more about Salsa Clubs vs. Hip Hop Clubs[…]