6 Cures for Dance Anxiety

5. Fuck your ego. Your ego is an antiquated membrane from the days we lived in the wild with animals and were at constant danger of being eaten as prety. Our ego keeps us safe. Our ego does not encourage us to take risks and try new things; it tells us to stay in the house, and to not stand out and shine.

Acknowledge your ego, understand it’s purpose, then push it aside and don’t be afraid to shine and express yourself.

Tips on Dance Floor Game by my Friend Johnny Vice

The myth that only great dancers do well on the floor is down: you do not need be next Michael Jackson to generate attraction with dance. At a meeting of salsa dancers, you’ll have to impress with your steps to stand out from others, but in reality, other parties are much less demanding . Provided Read more about Tips on Dance Floor Game by my Friend Johnny Vice[…]

3 Tips to Improve Your Confidence Instantly!

Here are 3 Steps to becoming more Confident immediately: 1.Smile Yes, that’s right- my best advice to looking more confident everyday on the streets and in the club is to simply put a teethy smile on your face.  Even a smug smirk will work pretty well!  Yes the best way to become a better dancer Read more about 3 Tips to Improve Your Confidence Instantly![…]

Small Change, Huge Impact

I was cleaning my room today and had a thought that things don’t always have to be how they have been. I can make a conscious decision at any time that I’ll make a change in my life and make it happen. These decisions can be about anything like eating unhealthily, drinking excessively, wanting to improve your social/family/dating life… Perhaps you’ve acted or felt the same way for years and you want to make changes. Know that “Your history is not your destiny”. Know that you can change your thoughts and habits and the change could be overnight. More likely it could take weeks..

FAQ: Will Dancing Help me Get Girls?

Without even dancing well, a man who has the confidence to get on the dance floor is way ahead of his peers, I’d say 40-60% of men at clubs never have the balls to step on the dance floor. So if you’re out there, you’re already way ahead of those dudes with their back on the walls clutching their drinks. (What is this -middle school?) Now I’m not here to judge, I’m here to help and am just sharing my experience.

Be Inspired!

What I noticed works best for me, and when I see the biggest improvements in whatever I’m doing (Dancing, Martial Arts, working out) is if I have inspiration and competition. Whenever I feel like I’m the best at something I become very complacent. However when I see say an amazing dancer in dance class, or on my dance company, I get inspired to improve.

Don’t look at someone’s amazing talent or skill and say “I’ll never be able to be like that”. Instead say, “I want to be as good as him/her”, and know that with work you will make more amazing progress than you would ever imagine.

Shortcut to Learning Dance!

As I mentioned previously in “Biggest Roadblock to Growth” our ego’s often prevent us from learning and growing because people naturally don’t want to look stupid. This is understandable but I’ve learned in life that growing pains are unavoidable. Those who have the least fear of looking silly will learn the fastest. These are people willing to mess up constantly in order to surmount the learning curve and achieve their goals.

Advice for Shy Guys

Years later I feel that the keys to women are:

Confidence
Being able to communicate and conversate
Sense of Humor
Not being afraid to be physical and sexual with women
Not putting up with bullshit, disrespect and bad behavior.
Grooming/fashion

How to Be an Interesting Man

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7cDB-kHprhE[/youtube] Going along with my last post, here are some great tips from the Homie UncoChin on how to be an interesting man.