Category Archives: Grinding Dance

How to Get CLOSE while Dancing [How to Dance in a Club] Escalate!


This is one of the smoothest ways to get close to your partner while dancing.

It’s aggressive but a smooth move and you normally won’t get any resistance.

Tips for Guys:

-Dance apart for a little while and get comfortable vibing with her first.

-Don’t wait too long and be aggressive once you decide you want to bring her in closer.

-Hold her hands on your shoulders so she knows to keep them there. Otherwise may move them immediately.

Tips for Girls:

If you’re not into the guy or not enjoying the interaction you can back off or keep him at a distance with your hands.  Think of a “stiff arm” in football =)


How to Make Him/Her Smile While Dancing

This is a fun way guaranteed to make your partner smile.. Or you can even start dancing with someone by “booty bumping” them and see if they smile at you and engage you..

If they smile, or turn towards you just turn in towards them more and you can try the same move side to side, or butt to butt.

It’s fun, flirty, and non threatening versus just going up behind a girl and trying to grind of them.

Watch the video here and be sure to thumbs up and comment!


How to Take Control while Dancing:The Fatality

Here’s another move that I consider “Subtly aggressive.”  What I mean is it’s aggressive but I only say it’s subtle because if you do it smoothly the girl will always go with it.  If you do it really roughly the girl might get pissed, therefore I suggest being “firm but gentle” if that makes sense.

For those of you old enough to remember the video game “Mortal Kombat”  you’re supposed to say “Fatality” in a deep Sub Zero voice as you push her down. (Original credit to UrbanTea on youtube)


Disclaimer: Only use this AFTER you are having fun and the girl is comfortable with you. Do NOT walk up to any girl and use this as an opener, if you do you’ll probably end up with a black eye and kicked out on the streets!


How to Freak on Jay Leno!

Exciting news! I was on the Tonight Show with Jay Leno 7/16/10. The clip is below!

The Internet Success and Failure segment  My clip is a SUCCESS around 2:20!


The original video is here with over 2 millions views: How to Freak Dance, How to Grind


Woop woop!