One of the first questions I ask when I meet a new girl is: “What is your passion?” Disappointingly 6 out of 10 girls answer “I don’t know”, or “I don’t have one.” As a man who has many interests-music, dance, women, cars, money, learning, teaching; it’s quite a turnoff if a girl doesn’t have anything she really loves in life. It could be any hobby or interest, they don’t have to be a Olympic Athlete, or a Master Chef, it can be something as simple as going to the gym, appreciating good food, photography,nature… It doesn’t have to be anything artistic or super exciting, but just the fact, that the girl I”m dating has something in life that moves them, allows me to relate to them.