I see so many guys making this mistake EVERYTIME I’m out at bars or clubs. I even catch myself doing it at times and I can tell when I’m more conscious that I: maintain a stronger frame, show less neediness, and am more attractive!
A peek at the crazy fun we had this past weekend. Wish you were there.. The best nightclub in Las Vegas Marquee at the Cosmopolitan
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G1Sh-_M5xtc[/youtube] This is a fun simple move not alot of guys do, but whenever I do the girls smile, and whenever I see other guys they get the same effect. Just pay attention to how I teach how to hold the girls hand, so it’s comfortable for her, you don’t want to make twist her Read more about Dancing at a Club:How to Connect with Your Partner[…]
This is a fun way guaranteed to make your partner smile.. Or you can even start dancing with someone by “booty bumping” them and see if they smile at you and engage you.. If they smile, or turn towards you just turn in towards them more and you can try the same move side to Read more about How to Make Him/Her Smile While Dancing[…]
This is a simple technique that can be used to break the touch barrier and to get the ladies more comfortable with you.
If the girls arms are up, or even if theyre’ down around her hips- you can smoothly grab her hands and lead her around a bit. I normally place my fingers palms up to her palms down, or you can put your thumb on her palm and wrap your fingers around her wrist.
Disclaimer: Only use this AFTER you are having fun and the girl is comfortable with you. Do NOT walk up to any girl and use this as an opener, if you do you’ll probably end up with a black eye and kicked out on the streets
A secret to staying in control and making the girl want you, and want to be near you
Without even dancing well, a man who has the confidence to get on the dance floor is way ahead of his peers, I’d say 40-60% of men at clubs never have the balls to step on the dance floor. So if you’re out there, you’re already way ahead of those dudes with their back on the walls clutching their drinks. (What is this -middle school?) Now I’m not here to judge, I’m here to help and am just sharing my experience.
What I noticed works best for me, and when I see the biggest improvements in whatever I’m doing (Dancing, Martial Arts, working out) is if I have inspiration and competition. Whenever I feel like I’m the best at something I become very complacent. However when I see say an amazing dancer in dance class, or on my dance company, I get inspired to improve.
Don’t look at someone’s amazing talent or skill and say “I’ll never be able to be like that”. Instead say, “I want to be as good as him/her”, and know that with work you will make more amazing progress than you would ever imagine.
Years later I feel that the keys to women are:
Being able to communicate and conversate
Sense of Humor
Not being afraid to be physical and sexual with women
Not putting up with bullshit, disrespect and bad behavior.